thanks for warm welcome replies,
yeah civic was a reliable and a fun to drive car for 2.5 years but i felt like its time to upgrade to something with original honda feel and drive but with more comfort.
i personally am not a fanboy of any sorts and i would say that i have been thinking about what to get for almost 6 months now, 3 series, c class or a4 are just plain too expensive and cost too much to maintain and dont retain their value as good as japanese do. so i was left with q50 and is250 both of which for some reason i didnt like, i dont know why

q50 too big and is250 was too expensive and wasnt offering anything superior to tlx.
the dealership gave me free for life oil change, car wash and rotation with 4 years 50k miles 24/7 roadside assistance which was a pretty good deal.
it is really comfortable and quiet, my wife's reaction was 'its as quiet as Alma's car' (her friend who drives a lexus rx350) so im guessing its more quiet that traditional acuras. i will post more as i experience with this car

thanks again for replies